Former U.S. hostage and diplomat John Limbert said the United States cannot improve its relationship with Iran through a hard-line strategy of bombing and assassinations [1].

Limbert's perspective is critical because he served as the Deputy Assistant Secretary of State for Iran and experienced the 1979 hostage crisis firsthand. His warnings suggest that current coercive tactics may be counterproductive to long-term regional stability.

In an interview with Al Jazeera English released Sunday, Limbert said the U.S. cannot dictate terms to the Iranian government [1]. He said the "iron fist" approach, characterized by military strikes and targeted killings, fails to produce the desired behavioral changes from Tehran [1].

Limbert said both U.S. and Iranian leaders currently operate under the mistaken belief that coercive tactics will force the opposing side to comply [1]. He described a cycle where U.S. leaders believe that "all we have to do is drop more bombs and the Iranians will do what we want" [1].

According to Limbert, the Iranian leadership mirrors this logic by believing that "all we have to do is keep attacking ships in the Strait" to achieve their goals [1]. He said this mutual reliance on aggression harms the prospects for a functional relationship.

Limbert said a fundamental shift in approach is necessary for diplomacy to work [1]. "We can’t dictate to the Iranians, and the Iranians can’t dictate to us," Limbert said [1].

"We can’t dictate to the Iranians, and the Iranians can’t dictate to us."

Limbert's critique highlights a systemic failure in 'maximum pressure' diplomacy, where military escalation is viewed as a tool for negotiation. By framing the conflict as a mirror image of mutual coercion, he suggests that neither side can achieve security or compliance through force, indicating that a diplomatic breakthrough requires moving beyond the cycle of retaliation and deterrence.